Stop Surviving.
Start
Living.
We help men build confidence, strengthen relationships, and lead their families with purpose.
Feeling Like You're Just Surviving Instead of Living a Life You Love?
You’re working your ass off, checking all the boxes, providing for everyone. But at home? You feel more like hired help than the leader of your family.
You’re going through a separation or divorce. Your relationship is hanging by a thread. Maybe you’re already divorced and struggling to figure out how to be the father you want to be.
Your kids barely look up when you walk in the door. Your partner (or ex) treats you like a roommate or an inconvenience. And you’re exhausted from trying to keep everyone happy while feeling completely invisible.
Comfort Has a Cost — and It's Your Future
Every day you stay in survival mode, something important slips away:
- Your confidence erodes. You second-guess every decision, afraid of making the "wrong" move with your kids or partner.
- Your relationships suffer. Your children see a stressed, distracted dad. Your partner sees someone who is emotionally checked out.
- Your purpose fades. You wonder if this is all there is to being a man - just grinding through each day without real connection or meaning.
- Your legacy crumbles. Instead of building something meaningful, you're just trying to avoid falling behind or losing what you have left.
The truth is, you know you’re capable of so much more. But the harder you try using the same old strategies, the further you drift from the man you want to be.
Join The Inner Circle
Download our free PDF packet with practical strategies to build confidence, connect with your kids, and lead your family with purpose.
There's Another Way Forward
What if everything you’re struggling with right now is actually preparing you for your breakthrough? You’re not broken. You’re not failing. You just haven’t had the right guidance.
The men who break free from survival mode and step into confident leadership don’t do it alone. They work with other men who’ve been through the fire and come out stronger.
Your Experienced Coaches
Northman Coaching is a veteran-owned company founded by two men who have walked the path and understand where you are and want to walk this journey with you.
Gary Hults - Coach
Robert Burton - Coach
Built on Values. Driven by Purpose.
As a veteran-owned company, we specialize in supporting individuals during their most challenging times – whether you’re in a troubled relationship, going through a divorce, or are already divorced.
We don’t just give you more things to do. We help you discover and live by your core values so you can become the man who naturally attracts respect, connection, and purpose.
Step 01
Discover Your Values
Identify what truly matters to YOU. Not what society expects, but your authentic core values that will guide every decision you make as a father, partner, and man.
Step 02
Align Your Actions
Learn how to live in alignment with your values, creating the clarity and confidence that comes from knowing who you are and what you stand for in every situation.
Step 03
Build Meaningful Relationships
Whether with your children, their mother, or future partners, create relationships built on your values, mutual respect, and authentic connection rather than fear or desperation.
Step 04
Create Your Legacy
Become the free, calm, and confident man you're meant to be, demonstrating to your loved ones the power of living by your values and principles.
Testimonials
Tired of just surviving? Good! It’s time to start truly living. You have two choices
Choice 1:
Keep doing what you’re doing. Hope things magically improve while watching your confidence, relationships, and sense of purpose slowly slip away.
Choice 2:
Quit repeating the same moves. Reset yourself and show up differently—and lead the change your relationship needs.
Take the first step toward becoming the confident leader your family needs.
Start with a Free Discovery Consultation
No pressure. No sales pitch. Just an honest conversation between men about where you are and where you want to go.
In this 60-minute call, you will:
- Get clarity on what's really keeping you stuck in survival mode
- Discover your unique path to confident leadership
- Learn about our coaching programs and community
- Walk away with actionable insights, regardless of what you decide next
Our Coaching Programs
Momentum Package
4 Private Coaching Sessions (90 minutes each)
Ideal For:
Men who are serious about change but not ready to commit to premium-level coaching just yet. They want structure, personal support through 1-on-1 sessions, and clear wins within a short timeframe.
The Legacy Builder
8-12 Week Deep Transformation Program
Ideal For:
High-commitment men—divorced dads, midlife rebuilders, or men looking to lead their family legacy with clarity, calm, and conviction.
Join Us
Join the Northman Legacy Crew
Weekly Podcast Living by Oak Values
Stop Waiting for Permission
It may feel selfish to prioritize yourself, but in reality, it is Selfless to do so for the sake of your family. Your family needs the best version of you. Your children are watching how you handle challenges, how you show up, and how you love your life.